Crowded lobby

10.22.07 (8:26 am)   [edit]

 

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Crowded lobby

Emergency rooms are places of waiting,
of hurrying to get there and then just sitting,
often in a crowded lobby,
witnessing the human drama of our fragility
played out in living color;
pain, worry, suffering lived out in full view,
though most so preoccupied with their own drama
it can mostly be fazed out.

I suppose I am good at it now,
bringing my reading materials,
prayer beads,
and yes something to write in if I desire,
sometimes the wait flows by in rapid sequence,
at others
it seems like an eternity.

I sit with the one I am with,
getting them water,
if allowed,
or perhaps a snack
if allowed,
and of course needs of nature need attending to.

Sometimes they come home with me,
more often than not,
admitted,
a few times
death is the outcome,
when all that can be done is to hold their hand,
pray with them,
or perhaps just for them if they are not conscious,
until they are called.

The visits blur,
so many,
different people yet all remembered,
for there is a bound formed between caregiver
and the one cared for.



posted by: Barnabus1 (reply)
post date: 10.22.07 (8:11 am)

Caregiver is one hard job!!! I had to do it for mom for awhile, till we finally got her into a nursing home! My leash was very short, front door to back door, but not much outside..except to get the mail. I learned too after she went to the nursing home, it's hard to visit, and I did every day...they have nothing to talk about, so it's kinda of a monolog! Same with shut-ins! I'm so tired of the same old stories over and over agin, yet I listen as though I'd never heard it before and interact!! It could not be done without the grace of God!!



posted by: mitchdolittle (reply)
post date: 10.22.07 (1:11 pm)

Yes, grace has something to do with it. My job is shared, so it is not as difficult as yours was when taking care of your mother.

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